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122: Why Influence is a Skill, Not a Talent And How to Learn It with René Rodriguez
How do you truly amplify your influence? Whether you’re a business leader, an entrepreneur, or someone looking to make a greater impact, this episode is for YOU.
Today, Kelly Siegel sits down with René Rodriguez—bestselling author, keynote speaker, and transformational leadership coach—to break down the science behind influence, communication, and personal growth. With over 27 years of experience in behavioral neuroscience applied to leadership and sales, René has shared the stage with legends like Ed Mylett, Tony Robbins, and Gary Vaynerchuk.
💡 Key Takeaways:
The 3 S’s of Influence: Significance, Suffering, and Skills
How self-awareness is the foundation of great leadership
The secret to capturing attention in a distracted world
The power of storytelling to inspire action
How emotional intelligence & discipline impact success
René also shares his personal transformation journey—from letting himself go to reclaiming his health—and explains how your mindset and habits determine your future.
🎤 Learn more about his game-changing Amplify Workshops & René’s bestselling book "Amplify Your Influence": https://www.meetrene.com/
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#HarderThanLife #Influence #Leadership #Mindset
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121: Think Like the 1% & Make Quantum Leaps in Life w/ Chris Patterson
Are You Ready to Break Through to the Next Level?
In this powerful episode of Harder Than Life, I sit down with my good friend and legendary entrepreneur Chris Patterson, CEO and founder of Live Large Coaching and Interchanges. With over 20 years of experience helping businesses grow by billions, Chris reveals the mindset, mastery, and strategies that have propelled NFL stars, top CEOs, and high achievers to greatness.
What You’ll Learn:
The Power of Simplicity – How the "Top 5 Rule" creates unstoppable momentum in life and business.
Quantum Leap Mindset – What separates the top 1% from everyone else and how to reprogram your mind for success.
From Rock Bottom to Breakthrough – Chris’s inspiring transformation, from struggles to being mentored by Zig Ziglar.
The Terror Barrier – How fear stops most people and the mindset shift needed to push through.
Faith Over Fear – The secret to rewiring your brain for abundance, not scarcity.
The Power of Forgiveness – Why letting go of the past is the key to true freedom and fulfillment.
Chris and I also swap wild Detroit and Windsor stories, dive into fitness, business, emotional intelligence, and personal growth, and break down the habits of top performers.
Key Takeaways:
Success is built daily through small, consistent actions.
Fear is the gatekeeper to your biggest breakthroughs.
Help others first and watch abundance flow into your life.
Your mindset controls everything – change your thoughts, change your life.
The best investment? Your own growth.
Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more game-changing insights.
#HarderThanLife #ChrisPatterson #SuccessMindset #PersonalGrowth #Entrepreneurship
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120: The Universe is Hiring w/ Anniston Blair Riekstins
In this transformational episode of the Harder Than Life Podcast, host Kelly sits down with Anniston Blair Riekstins, a high-performance coach, spiritual teacher, motivational speaker, and the brilliant author of the new book The Universe is Hiring. This conversation dives deep into the themes of purpose, alignment, overcoming fear, and how to co-create with the universe to manifest your most fulfilling life. Anniston shares personal stories, actionable insights, and a glimpse into her spiritual journey, making this episode a must-listen as you step into a new year of possibilities.Pre-order your copy of The Universe is Hiring today! https://amzn.to/3PikiniKey Takeaways:Purpose Commitments: Define your purpose not by a title but by the actions that align with your gifts. Example: "I open hearts and minds with my words."
Emotional Intelligence: Differentiate between nervousness and excitement. Shift your perception to embrace all emotions as part of your growth.
Practical Manifestation: Combine intention with aligned action to bring your dreams to life.
"You are here for a reason, with gifts only you can bring to the world." – Anniston Blair Riekstins
Anniston Riekstins’s Links:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annistonblairriekstins/?hl=en
Podcast: https://www.inpoweruniversity.com/the-inpowered-life
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In this heartfelt and transformative episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel welcomes two extraordinary guests: Shawn Finnegan, a serial entrepreneur known as a “super connector,” and Debbie Hart, founder of Ignition Point, a platform empowering entrepreneurs across all stages. Together, they unpack stories of triumph, failure, and growth, demonstrating how challenges shape us into our best selves.Key Takeaways:Relationships Over Everything: Both Shawn and Debbie emphasize the importance of building and nurturing relationships in personal and professional life.
Forgiveness Frees You: Shawn’s story of reconciliation highlights how letting go of grudges can lead to peace and renewed connection.
The Power of Action: Debbie and Shawn share how taking imperfect action is better than waiting for the "perfect" moment to start.
Leverage Knowledge: Entrepreneurs often miss out on opportunities like tax deductions due to lack of knowledge. Education is key to growth.
Empowerment Through Events: Debbie’s Ignition Point events provide access to industry leaders in an intimate, actionable setting.
"No one builds an empire alone. Success is always a team effort." – Shawn Finnegan
"It’s not what happens to you, but what you choose to do with it that defines your future." – Debbie Hart
Debbie & Shawn’s Links:
Website: https://ignitionpointacademy.com/
Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@IgnitionPointpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debbiehart/, https://www.instagram.com/finneganshawn/?hl=en Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction to Resilience and Innovation
01:32 - The Power of Relationships in Entrepreneurship
04:29 - Mindset Shifts: From Hardship to Ease
09:12 - Shawn's Journey: Overcoming Business Challenges
12:30 - Debbie's Transformation: From Stay-at-Home Mom to Entrepreneur
19:04 - Finding Strength in Vulnerability
23:58 - The Importance of Sharing Stories
29:52 - Lessons Learned and Moving Forward
33:51 - Taking Your Power Back
34:15 - The Depth of Character Development
35:14 - Finding Gratitude in Challenges
36:40 - Building the Future vs. Fighting the Past
37:31 - The Importance of Foxhole Friends
39:54 - Navigating Difficult Relationships
42:25 - The Healing Journey of Forgiveness
44:52 - The Power of Communication
46:40 - Listening as a Tool for Resolution
49:48 - Understanding Tax Implications for Entrepreneurs
54:29 - Role Models and Personal Growth
01:00:43 - Upcoming Events and Community Engagement
Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Shop HTL merch: https://harderthanlifeshop.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanlife.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71
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118: From Body Shame to Peak Performance w/ Justin Roethlingshoefer
In this transformative episode of the Harder Than Life podcast, host Kelly sits down with Justin Roethlingshoefer, co-founder of the groundbreaking Own It Coaching and a trailblazer in the health and wellness space. With a background as a performance coach for NCAA and NHL athletes, a USA Today bestselling author, and host of The Own It Show, Justin has dedicated his life to helping leaders and high performers redefine health and live life on their terms. Justin shares his inspiring journey from being an overweight, body-shamed child to becoming a powerhouse in health optimization. Key Takeaways:What is Ownership? Ownership is the intersection of accountability and responsibility. It’s about taking charge of your health and life with intentionality and consistency.
The Cellular Approach to Health: Justin emphasizes that true health begins at the cellular level, where 30 trillion cells must work synergistically. His team uses DNA, epigenetic, and cellular testing to craft hyper-personalized health plans.
Why "Looking Healthy" Isn’t Enough: Justin’s journey revealed that even with a six-pack and elite athletic performance, internal health can tell a very different story. His wake-up call led him to focus on holistic, integrated health solutions.
Sleep Apnea, Testosterone, and Statins – Debunking Myths: Justin shares a powerful client success story of overcoming health challenges like sleep apnea and low testosterone without lifelong dependence on medication or devices.
Health Impacts Wealth: Justin and his team are working with entrepreneurs to track how improved health correlates with financial success.
"The world has taught us to base our confidence on outcomes. True transformation comes from intentionality and consistency." -Justin Roethlingshoefer
Justin Roethlingshoefer’s Links:
Website: https://ownitcoaching.com/testing/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinroeth/?hl=en
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-roethlingshoefer/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDetLdQmF_t_sEM-6d4eFkQ
Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Shop HTL merch: https://harderthanlifeshop.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanlife.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71
I’m Kelly Siegel, and this is Harder than Life. A podcast about self-love, self-awareness, business, and health. We tell outrageous stories and boil everything down to simple, practical advice you can start using today. Let’s get living!