Marcus In The Morning Second Date Update

Kevin matched with Rosa online and met up for cocktails in Oakland. The conversation flowed, the laughs were there, and nothing felt forced. He left the date feeling genuinely optimistic. Then the texts stopped. Left on read and totally confused, Kevin calls in to ask the question we’ve all asked before: what happened?

A Whole Foods meet-cute, a bold first move, pasta on a first date, and a labradoodle vs. Maltese showdown. Lupe thought her Mission District date with Greg went great — so why did he vanish afterward? We’re breaking it all down.

After drinks in San Mateo, Elise thought things were going well with Jordan. He was charming, attentive, and had her laughing all night. They talked about work stress, coastal walks, and shared the belief that first dates should feel natural, not like job interviews. Elise walked away feeling hopeful — until Jordan disappeared.

A confident, funny, direct date. Honest conversations about expectations and pet peeves. Then nothing. Sam calls us after Erica disappears post-drinks in San Jose, and we dig into the ghosting mystery.

When “open and honest” feels right… until it doesn’t. Derek calls in after a Redwood City dinner that felt meaningful and real — maybe a little deep, but not too deep (or was it?). Olivia vanished, and we’re left asking the same question Derek is: what changed?