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Should you let your baby “cry it out”? (+ Tap-to-pay & good karma)
Happy Thursday! This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we’re TIRED (sorry!!!) — we’re low on sleep over here, but we’re sharing what we’re doing to try and fix that. We dive into the age-old debate: should you let your baby “cry it out”? (We’re figuring it out in real time.) And of course, we talk about all the sleep-deprived mishaps—can’t pay for dinner, left the car running, lost phones... it’s been a week.
We also give a quick house update (spoiler alert: we still don’t know what’s happening, and we’re supposed to move in a week—fun!!).
And in Things We DMed Each Other, we discovered laptops maybe shouldn’t sit on your lap?? Add that to the list of things no one warned us about.
And for this week’s brain break—well, we needed one. So much so that we literally couldn’t remember what we were supposed to talk about.
We LOVE YOU GUYS!
Timestamps:
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast
00:02:05 Is food before 1 just for fun?
00:06:29 Weekly house update (kind of lol)
00:14:07 Breaking rules & bad karma
00:21:47 Tap-to-pay incident
00:27:07 We’re a little sleep deprived
00:29:22 Should you let your baby “cry it out”?
00:46:40 Dining out is getting harder
00:48:20 Things We DMed Eachother: Laptops shouldn’t sit on your lap?!
00:52:35 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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57:08
You can’t buy good neighbors (+ building your village & communication in relationships)
Happy Thursday! This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we’re talking about what it really means to have good neighbors—because as you guys put it, “you can renovate a house, but you can’t buy good neighbors.”
We start with some Year 1 milestone updates (why am I irrationally sad?!), from moving Tate into her own room to starting solids (Harrison has officially been named Chief Solids Officer). Plus, we recap our first annual neighborhood block party—a new tradition in the making!
Next, we break down what today’s ‘village’ to raise a child actually looks like—and specifically, how we’ve built ours. Then, we’re diving into communication in relationships (and in general!)—the good, the bad, and why ‘clean’ means something completely different to both of us.
In Things We DMed Each Other, we have to talk about Frida’s breast milk-flavored ice cream (yes, really—it’s not an April Fools’ joke). And finally, we’re (well actually just me Harrison had to leave for a meeting LOL) responding to your comments before wrapping up.
We LOVE YOU GUYS!
Timestamps
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast
00:02:33 Year 1 milestone updates - moving baby to own room and solids update
00:11:33 Our first annual neighborhood block party
00:20:23 You can’t buy good neighbors
00:26:13 What does today’s ‘village’ to raise a child look like?
00:32:50 Communication in relationships
00:39:10 Different definitions of clean
00:46:05 Things We DMed: Frida Breast Milk-Flavored Ice Cream
00:51:30 Responding To The Comments
00:52:43 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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54:07
Being the “default parent” (+ moving into a hotel & crying babies on planes)
Happy Thursday! This week, we dive into “default parent syndrome”—what it means, how it’s not good or bad (unless you’re experiencing it and you think it is!!), and how it could be your own fault if you’re the default parent?? But first - we talk about our housing update (I think we’re moving into a hotel… Eloise at the Plaza 🤝 Tate at the [insert Austin hotel here]), recap our Aspen trip (plus answered your questions about we handled childcare while traveling) and is it OK for babies to cry on planes (+ a bunch more of airplane talk lol).
In Things We DMed Each Other, we talk about Frontier clapping back at Southwest and the viral TikTok trend on teaching kids to share.
Then, we’re responding to your comments (trying this for the first time!!!) about building family traditions. And in this week’s Brain Break, we read a sweet (but hilarious) text from Harrison’s dad.
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast!
00:01:20 We made our “What Happens If…” housing plan
00:07:55 Aspen trip recap
00:13:33 How to find child care while traveling
00:19:33 The most amazing customer service experience
00:24:42 Crying babies on airplanes
00:32:05 Things We DMed Each Other: Southwest vs. Frontier
00:38:16 Things DMed Each Other: Teaching Kids to Share on TikTok
00:42:20 Responding To The Comments: Building Family Traditions
00:45:50 Listener Question: Being the “default parent” is exhausting…
00:58:20 Brain Break: A text from Harrison’s dad
01:00:02 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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1:00:57
Breaking parenting “rules” (+ making an offer on a house & double date dynamics)
Happy Thursday! We’re back with another episode, and this one has a little bit of everything. First up—the ongoing gift saga continues (because of course it’s not over yet - but this time we have a solution???). Then, we get into the dynamics of double dating—and how I might talk too much (I think it’s OK though bc I talk for a living? lol)
We intro’d solid foods this week!!! So we chat about that plus an update on my pumping/breastfeeding journey.
And in HUGE news… we made an offer on a house! We’re talking through all the house-hunting updates, property taxes & creeping on people on Zillow hahahha OH and an update on the nanny share… Also, we’re throwing a block party?! We might be THOSE neighbors now (or our neighbors might trying to be convince us to stay??).
In Things We DMed Each Other, we’re chatting drinking vs. social isolation and why all couples are actually the same.
Listener Qs this week: Breaking parenting “rules” (and finding the joy in parenting) and our opinions on long-distance relationships. And we’re wrapping up with a Brain Break: the best & worst purchases from the first six months of parenthood (spoiler alert: our fav thing is cheap from Target!!!).
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast!
00:01:35 The gift saga continues…
00:05:05 The dynamics of double dating
00:12:30 Introducing our 6 month old to solid foods + an update on my pumping/breastfeeding journey
00:21:37 We made an offer on a house!!! + other house hunting updates
00:33:00 We’re throwing a block party with the neighbors!!
00:35:10 Things We DMed Eachother: Drinking vs. Social Isolation
00:44:17 Things We DMed Eachother: All couples are the same
00:47:00 Listener Q: Breaking parenting “rules” + finding joy in parenting?
00:54:37 Listener Q: Opinions on long distance relationships?
01:02:20 Brain Break: Best & worst purchases in the first 6 months
01:05:15 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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1:07:06
Can friendships survive kids?! (+ supporting your partner & living a more spontaneous life)
Happy Thursday! We’re back with another episode, and this one’s a fun one. Getting ahead of this now - I’m SORRY for the scream at the beginning (but I know you guys understand 🕷️🕷️). First up—Harrison just launched a new product (not an ad #NoFreeAds). Then, we get into our family’s secret languages (do you have one??), an update on Tate (she’s 6 months old!!! is this the end of pumping?), and the TL;DR of the house situation is that there’s no update and we’re like 30 days out.
We’re also talking about friendship after kids—does having a baby mean losing friends? Does your FRIENDS having babies mean losing friends? And how can you be a supportive friend when your bestie becomes a parent? Plus a reminder to pay attention to how your friends talk about their partners!!!
A sweet dad-to-be calls in and we share our #1 tips for prepping for baby.
And, of course, we’re ending with the usual chaos—Fyre Festival 2 is somehow happening (allegedly), and we have some (alleged) thoughts.
We LOVE YOU GUYS!!
Timestamps:
00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast! 00:03:50 Harrison launched a new product!! (#NotAnAd lol) 00:07:35 Your family’s secret language 00:09:20 Tate is turning 6 months old (am I done pumping??) 00:12:55 Our weekly house update (TL;DR - there’s no update) 00:17:28 Skincare company recalls acne treatment due to cancer-linked chemicals?! 00:19:34 Things We DMed Eachother: Babysitting co-ops are a thing?! 00:25:15 Things We DMed Eachother: “My friends abandoned me when they had kids” 00:31:15 Listener Question: How can you be a supportive friend to new parents? 00:38:20 Pay attention to how your friends speak about their partners 00:45:50 Listener Question: How can I prepare to be a first-time dad? 00:48:20 Brain Break: Fyre Festival 2 00:51:45 LOVE YOU GUYS!
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