How do we start a conversation about finances with our partners, especially when each of our households of origin might have thought about money quite differently?
Ramit Sethi, host of Netflix’s hit show, How to Get Rich, and author of MONEY FOR COUPLES, offers practical tips for productively discussing money with your partner.
Ramit and Margaret discuss:
Why money conversations are so hard
The four money types: Avoider, Optimizer, Worrier, or Dreamer
How the messages we heard (or didn’t hear) about money growing up shape our adult decisions—and how to teach kids better.
Age-appropriate ways to talk to your kids about money, build financial literacy, and model strong values.
Here's where to find Ramit:
www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com
Buy MONEY FOR COUPLES: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781523523689
Listen to the Money for Couples podcast: https://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/podcast/
Watch Ramit's Netflix show
@ramit on IG and X
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47:21
Things Most People Think Are Hard (But Aren't)
There are plenty of things that seem intimidating but are actually not that hard to do! From power hedge trimmers to cooking a whole fish, we (and our listeners) are here with the things that most people seem to think are hard—but actually aren't.
View the full list of things our listeners said are actually pretty simple.
Plus, the two things we promised to include in the show notes:
an actually-easy way to create Power of Attorney forms for kids off to college
an actually easy and attractive way to store sets of sheets
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49:20
DEEP DIVE: Ellen Kahn On Supporting Our LGBTQ Kids
Ellen Kahn is the Senior Director of Programs and Partnerships at the Human Rights Campaign. In her role, Ellen provides national leadership and expertise in public education and advocacy efforts on behalf of LGBTQ youth and families. Ellen is nationally recognized as an expert on LGBTQ family life and LGBTQ youth. She's also a proud mom of two teenage daughters.
In this interview, Ellen explains how parents can create a home environment that affirms and accepts LGBTQ children, and how to advocate for LGBTQ kids in the larger world– whether they're our own children or not. As Ellen explains: "It's all of us together, chiseling away at the reason parents can be fearful when they find out their child is LGBTQ. Let's just not raise bullies anymore."
Here are a few additional resources mentioned in this episode:
Human Rights Campaign's welcomingschools.org
pflag.org
"Serendipitydodah- Home of the Mama Bears" Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/Serendipitydodah
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40:18
Fresh Take: Dr. Morgan Cutlip on Redistributing the Mental Load
Amy chats with Dr. Morgan Cutlip about her new book A Better Share, which offers practical, research-based strategies for managing the mental load in relationships. They discuss how default parenting, gender socialization, and communication missteps can create resentment—and how couples can reconnect through clarity and shared responsibility. You’ll hear why the mental load is the real relationship villain, not your partner— and how to invite your partner into the solution .
Amy and Morgan discuss:
why our invisible labor is so hard to talk about without sparking defensiveness
why curiosity offers a secret to lasting connection
how being the default parent impacts one's desire for intimacy
how to help kids develop initiative, not just complete chores
the power of “gracious interpretations” and the ultimate compliment formula
Here's where you can find Morgan:
https://drmorgancutlip.com
Listen to Morgan's podcast "Love Thinks"
@drmorgancutlip on IG
Buy A BETTER SHARE: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781400239672
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43:11
Trad Moms and Trad Wives
We dive into the world of #tradwives and trad moms—mothers who embrace their traditional gender roles and showcase homemaking all over social media, usually with a heavy dose of curated perfection, aspiring to a bygone ideal that may never exactly have actually existed.
Amy and Margaret discuss:
what actually defines a trad wife
the influence of social media algorithms in boosting—and polarizing—this content
the aesthetic fantasy of cottagecore, nap dresses, and homesteading versus the messy reality of modern motherhood
Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:
Sophie Elmhirst for The New Yorker: The Rise and Fall of the Trad Wife
Maddie Garfinkle for People Magazine: What Is a Tradwife? All About the Controversial Lifestyle — And Why It's Having a Viral Moment
Amy X. Wang for The New York Times: Who’s Afraid of the Big, Bad Tradwife?
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About What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms
When you're a parent, every day brings a "fresh hell" to deal with. In other words, there's always something. Think of us as your funny mom friends who are here to remind you: you're not alone, and it won't always be this hard.
We're Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables, both busy moms of three kids, but with completely different parenting styles. Margaret is a laid-back to the max; Amy never met a spreadsheet or an organizational system she didn't like.
In each episode of "What Fresh Hell" we offer lots of laughs, but also practical advice, parenting strategies, and tips to empower you in your role as a mom. We explore self-help techniques, as well as ways to prioritize your own needs, combat stress, and despite the invisible workload we all deal with, find joy amidst the chaos of motherhood.
If you've ever wondered "why is my kid..." then one of us has probably been there, and we're here to tell you what we've learned along the way.
We unpack the behaviors and developmental stages of toddlers, tweens, and teenagers, providing insights into their actions and equipping you with effective parenting strategies.
We offer our best parenting tips and skills we've learned. We debate the techniques and studies that are everywhere for parents these days, and get to the bottom of what works best to raise happy, healthy, fairly well-behaved kids, while fostering a positive parent-child relationship.
If you're the default parent in your household, whether you're a busy mom juggling multiple pickups and dropoffs, or a first-time parent seeking guidance, this podcast is your trusted resource. Join our community of supportive mom friends laughing in the face of motherhood!
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