The Baddest Bitch in the Building

Get your early bird tickets for my Toronto meet & greet and party here
🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!
📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me. You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.
Free preview available here.

Welcome to the third episode of Machiavelli for Women. In this series, I decode The Prince, one of the most controversial texts in history, to help women flip the patriarchy on its head.

Most of us need to get better at reading between the lines. On top of that, too many of us don't see reality for what it is, because we're clouded by projection, fairness, and reciprocity. In this episode, I'll walk us through a 4-step funnel inspired by Machiavelli's The Prince and Discourses on Livy that'll help us make sense of people's behaviour and buffoonery.

xoxoxo Neekolo

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
3:14 The 4-step funnel
4:41 1- Environment
15:07 2- Ambition
24:43 3- Perception
32:15 4- Self-concept

If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps

Episodes mentioned:
Machiavelli for Women Ep. 1: Do NOTHING for men (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
Patriarchy Hack #35: Never do anything with the expectation of gratitude (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
The dark side of corporate (that your boss hides from you) (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)

Music credit © Chœur des Marais, Villefranche sur Saône, Fr
__________

🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
__________

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com
🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tickets for my Toronto meet & greet and party: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-btch-bash-tickets-2003183354337?aff=oddtdtcreator

🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!
📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.
You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.
Free preview available here.

The patriarchy has tag teamed with its friends capitalism and cultural norms to make us as uncomfortable as possible talking about money and (GASP!!!) wanting money. In this episode I’m going to break some taboos by discussing 5 ways the patriarchy keeps us finally illiterate, while also disclosing some ways I’ve spent and invested my money.

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
3:05 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT
4:51 1) Zero sum thinking
10:19 2) The myth of hard work
16:29 3) Guilt
26:37 4) Intimidation
31:07 5) Misinformation
38:32 Book recos

If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps

Episodes mentioned:
The dark side of corporate (that your boss hides from you) (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
__________

🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
__________

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com
🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!
📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.
You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.
Free preview available here.

Second last Hack y'all!!! We're going to discuss how to apply the Zeigarnik effect (leaving things unfinished) as a way to navigate through the patriarchy and through life in general.

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.
Love, Neeki

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:19 Learning some stuff
9:46 Unlearning the crap
26:28 What this means for you

If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps

Episodes mentioned:
The dark side of corporate (that your boss hides from you) (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
Girly law of power #31: Be the fantasy woman (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
Part 1 of my 5-part series on capitalism & patriarchy's monstrous lovechild (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
Patriarchy Hack #35: Never do anything with the expectation of gratitude (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)

Sources:
A Zeigarnik-like effect in the recall of anagram solutions
On Finished and Unfinished Tasks
The achievement motive and recall of interrupted and completed tasks
__________

🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
__________

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com
🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!
📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.
You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.
Free preview available here.

The title says it all. In this episode, we're going to discuss 6 behaviours that every highly confident woman needs. Remember, no one is born with the confidence of a mediocre man. We must consciously build the right behaviours while unlearning the crap taught to us through patriarchy.

Episodes mentioned:
Girly law of power #16: Master the art of silence (listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts)
Girly law of power #32: Stop trying to be understood by everyone (listen on Spotify of Apple Podcasts)
How to stop over explaining yourself: The hidden social rule you need to know (listen on Spotify of Apple Podcasts)

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
4:28 1- Move more slowly
7:48 2- Be slightly overdressed
11:47 3- Stop fidgeting & touching yourself
12:54 4- Always say less than necessary
15:00 5- Avoid (over)explaining yourself
20:35 6- Never say anything self-deprecating

If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps
__________

🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
__________

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com
🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

🩷 Love the show? Join the Patreon!
📚Get a digital or signed copy of How to Hack the Patriarchy here, shipped directly from me.
You can also purchase on Amazon or get a PDF or EPUB file.
Free preview available here.

If patriarchy were the natural order, it wouldn't need violence, coercion, and brainwashing to uphold itself.

In this episode, we're going to look at brainwashing (one of the top 3 fave tool of the patriarchy's PR team). What does it really look like to wake up from the trance and reach the other side of the veil? Also, I've come to realize that the more enlightened we become, the more we sound like conspiracy theories. Wackadoodle baddies unite! xo

PS I highly recommend watching this on YouTube so you can see the visuals <3

Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:11 Level 1
3:29 Level 2
6:02 Level 3
9:08 Level 4
16:26 Level 5
19:07 Level 6
23:18 Level 7

If you get ads at the beginning of this episode, add ~3 minutes to the timestamps

Sources:
Eve: How the Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Human Evolution by Cat Bohannon
__________

🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.

👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
__________

🌸 IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @baddestbinthebldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💓 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @baddest.b.in.the.bldg
⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💘 Collabs/partnerships: neeki@biggestbaddie.com
🔐 Unlock bonus episodes & join our private community on Patreon
💌 Subscribe to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Baddie Brief⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, a 1-minute read to give you a little reminder of a hack from one of the girly laws (that you prob forgot), delivered twice monthly on Fridays
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.