Uninvited Guests - How to Raise Positive Kids in a Negative World, Part 2
Conflicts with our kids are inevitable. And one of the most intimidating things about parenting is the fear of losing our kids when these conflicts present themselves. Join Chip has he lays out 8 keys that’ll help you build securely bonded relationships with your kids. If you want to learn how you and your child can weather the storms ahead, this message is for you.Four principles for positive parentingEffective parenting begins with positive CLEAR-CUT OBJECTIVES! -Ephesians 6:4Effective parenting demands we PRACTICE what we PREACH. -1 Corinthians 4:14-16Effective parents build relationships that BOND. -1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, 11-128 “Keys” that build relationships that bondUNCONDITIONAL loveScheduled TIMEFOCUSED attentionEYE contactONGOING communicationMeaningful TOUCHHave FUN togetherPRAY together oftenEffective parenting requires CONSTANT REPAIR and ONGOING MAINTENANCE. -1 John 1:9Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003
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Uninvited Guests - How to Raise Positive Kids in a Negative World, Part 1
One of the biggest questions parents are asking today is, “How do we raise positive kids in such a negative world?” In this message, Chip explains that God has a plan for parenting and the Bible clearly lays it out. If you long to strengthen the relationships with your children and increase the joy in your parenting journey, the first step begins here.Four principles for positive parentingEffective parenting begins with positive CLEAR-CUT OBJECTIVES! -Ephesians 6:4Effective parenting demands we PRACTICE what we PREACH. -1 Corinthians 4:14-16Effective parents build relationships that BOND. -1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, 11-128 “Keys” that build relationships that bondUNCONDITIONAL loveScheduled TIMEFOCUSED attentionEYE contactONGOING communicationMeaningful TOUCHHave FUN togetherPRAY together oftenEffective parenting requires CONSTANT REPAIR and ONGOING MAINTENANCE. -1 John 1:9Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003
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Uninvited Guests - Conflict Resolution: How to Fight Fair in Your Marriage, Part 2
What is the single biggest source of conflict in your marriage right now? Join Chip as he teaches you how to fight fair in marriage.What I learned on the sandlot from the “Barnes Boys”Conflict is normal, it's an opportunity for growth, it must be diffused or it will destroy, and it demands rules so no one gets hurtGod’s perspective on conflict:Conflict is inevitable in a fallen world. -Jn. 16:33Conflict flows from our differences and our selfishness. -Jms. 4:1-3Conflict is an opportunity for growth. -Phil. 2:1-4The most common communication styles:Turtles: The goal is to avoid.Sharks: The goal is to win.How to diffuse conflict in your marriage:D: DEFINE the problem (on your own). -Pr. 15:14 I: INITIATE a time to talk. -Matt. 5:23-24F: FOCUS on the “perceived” problem, not the person. -Pr. 18:19 F: FEEL their pain. -Pr. 17:17U: UNCOVER the root problem. -Pr. 20:5S: SET things right between you. -Jms. 5:16E: ESTABLISH a specific action plan that addresses the issue discussed. -Jms. 1:22-25Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003
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Uninvited Guests - Conflict Resolution: How to Fight Fair in Your Marriage, Part 1
What is the single biggest source of conflict in your marriage right now? Join Chip as he teaches you how to fight fair in marriage.What I learned on the sandlot from the “Barnes Boys”Conflict is normal, it's an opportunity for growth, it must be diffused or it will destroy, and it demands rules so no one gets hurtGod’s perspective on conflict:Conflict is inevitable in a fallen world. -Jn. 16:33Conflict flows from our differences and our selfishness. -Jms. 4:1-3Conflict is an opportunity for growth. -Phil. 2:1-4The most common communication styles:Turtles: The goal is to avoid.Sharks: The goal is to win.How to diffuse conflict in your marriage:D: DEFINE the problem (on your own). -Pr. 15:14 I: INITIATE a time to talk. -Matt. 5:23-24F: FOCUS on the “perceived” problem, not the person. -Pr. 18:19 F: FEEL their pain. -Pr. 17:17U: UNCOVER the root problem. -Pr. 20:5S: SET things right between you. -Jms. 5:16E: ESTABLISH a specific action plan that addresses the issue discussed. -Jms. 1:22-25Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003
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Uninvited Guests - How to Share Hearts Instead of Words, Part 2
In this message, Chip explains how you can improve the communication in your marriage. Communication is the highway on which love travels. Chip shares how you can start building your own relational super highway.Understanding the communication process:Definition: The meeting of MEANINGS.“Communication is the privilege of exchanging vulnerabilities.” -Norman Wright“Communication is the process of sharing yourself verbally and nonverbally in such a way that the other person can both accept and understand what you are saying.” -Norman WrightThe complete messageWords alone = 7% of meaningTone of voice = 38% of meaningFacial expression, gestures, posture, total non-verbal = 55% of meaning5 Principles that will transform communication in your home:BE HONEST - Speak the truth in love. -Ephesians 4:15, 25BE ANGRY- Deal with anger appropriately. -Ephesians 4:26-27BE DILIGENT - Work hard on your relationship. -Ephesians 4:28BE POSITIVE - Don’t wound with your words. -Ephesians 4:29-31BE FORGIVING - Be the first to say, “I’m sorry.” -Ephesians 4:32Practical skills and suggestions to enhance communication in your home:The conference - A tool for listening. Ask Three Questions:What are you concerned about?What do you desire?What are you willing to do?Word pictures - A tool for understanding“Care” lists - A tool for building: List seven simple, loving, “caring behaviors” that are non-conflict producing and not expensive that make you feel loved by your spouse.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003
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