Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Dear Shandy
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  • Dear Shandy

    Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466

    05/21/2026 | 1h 8 mins.
    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

    Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.

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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    2:14 - Q1: My Longtime Friend And I Are Secretly Crushing But Timing Isn’t Our Friend—Help!
    16:54 - Q2: My “Friend” Has Assumed I’ll Help Her Move Homes—Can I Get Out Of This?
    26:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend & I Are Finally Moving In Together But I Fear Compromising On This One Thing—Help!
    34:12 - Q4: I’m An Adult But These Former Colleagues Make Me Feel Like I’m In Junior High—Help!
    44:58 - Q5: My Husband Is Moody And It’s Driving Me Nuts!

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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  • Dear Shandy

    Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465

    05/20/2026 | 1h 16 mins.
    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7!

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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    3:06 - Episode 6
    33:53 - Episode 7
    1:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions
    1:14:44 - Who We Would Go For

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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  • Dear Shandy

    Planned Episode 5/19/2026

    05/19/2026 | 1h 16 mins.
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  • Dear Shandy

    Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464

    05/14/2026 | 1h 22 mins.
    Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5!

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    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Housekeeping
    1:16 - Episode 1
    26:10 - Episode 2
    35:32 - Episode 3
    56:14 - Episode 4
    1:07:53 - Episode 5
    1:19:11 - Who We Would Go For

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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    Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

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    Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion
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  • Dear Shandy

    U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463

    05/07/2026 | 52 mins.
    Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance.

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    - Jared: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreid

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast!
    0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs?
    9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More?
    11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice
    21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous
    25:22 - Leaving The House
    31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow
    39:06 - Would You Rather

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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About Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership.As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week.
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