If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefinin...
"Every woman has a season of dumb bitch-ness. But don’t worry, you too can heal." In today’s episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, we are joined by the Sunday Times #1 Bestselling author and host of the Slumflower Hour podcast, Slumflower. The ladies chat about financial feminism, growing up with mama trauma, and owning self pleasure. What you can expect to hear in this episode: Taxing men, voicing your needs, and life as a dominatrix (7:00) Want Him vs Need Him: Male utility and what it means to be a provider (19:00) Slumflower recounts her experience growing up Nigerian and the impact of strict parenting on her identity (28:00) Female friendships and how cutting off her mother increased her confidence (48:00) Daddy issues/ Mommy issues: The ladies share perspectives on forming an identity outside of parents (1:12:00) Monogamy, men, masturbation (1:17:00) Watch This episode & more on YouTube! Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! || Submit your questions Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp Join us this summer in paradise With your lover at our Couples Retreat June 14-20, 2025 Code: Pleasure or at The Good Vibe Rest+Vibe Retreat in Costa Rica July 31 - August 5 August 8 - August 13 --------------- Official GMBC Music: So good feat Renee, Trip and http://www.anthemmusicenterprises.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Bonus Episode: Premiere
You have officially been added to the tribe chat! Welcome to the premiere of the monthly bonus episode where it's safe to vent , share unpopular opinions and naked truths. Make sure you subscribe so u don't miss any bonus episodes! Every week we are spilling tea and current events Submit your questions Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp --------------- Join us this summer in paradise at the Good Vibe Rest+Vibe Retreat in Costa Rica July 31 - August 5 August 8 - August 13 Got a lover? Join our Couples Retreat Code: Pleasure --------------- Official GMBC Music: So good feat Renee, Trip and http://www.anthemmusicenterprises.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Black People Can Karen Too
"Once upon a time two single moms walked into a bar” … yada yada yada .. 7 years later they celebrate their baby turning SEVEN!! Tribe, can you believe it’s been 7 years since Erica and Milah created Good Moms Bad Choices?! I mean, literally imagine committing to something everyday for 7 years, it really changes you! In this episode, the ladies reflect on their seven years of friendship, business, and “bad choices” that turned out to be… pretty damn good. From manifesting a whole-ass empire, to occasionally stepping into your “Karen” bag Good Moms get nostalgic (and really high) while they remind you... sometimes you gotta be like Buddha Bitch. What you can expect to hear: The power of collaboration and why women should stop trying to do everything alone How female friendships are actually the secret to the "soft life" A high-thought theory about brainwaves, AI, and why your phone knows what you're thinking A bad choice of the week involving yoga, a white lady, and an unexpected Karen moment from Erica Why Chicken, Weed, and Men are all you really need in life (and OBVIOUSLY your girls!) Timestamps: 2:15 – Erica and Milah reflect on seven years of Good Moms Bad Choices 10:45 – Why collaboration is a superpower, not a weakness 18:30 – The connection between softness, sisterhood, and self-growth 26:50 – Is AI reading our minds, or are we just that powerful? 34:20 – Black people can Karen too 42:55 – The essential trinity Roll up, pour up, and share this episode with your girls! Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp Join us this summer in paradise at the Good Vibe Rest+Vibe Retreat in Costa Rica July 31 - August 5 August 8 - August 13 Got a lover? Join our Couples Retreat Code: Pleasure Official GMBC Music: So good feat Renee, Trip and http://www.anthemmusicenterprises.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Militant Daddy Feat. Derrick Grace II
Welcome back to Good Moms Bad Choices! In this week’s episode, we get very pro black and a little militant (just a little) with motivational speaker and entrepreneur, Derrick Grace II (@derrickgrace2). Stopping through all the way from Tampa, FL, Derrick is known for his strong stance on gun rights and his mission to teach self-defense to his community (especially all 8 of his daughters) Join us as we discuss every topic under the sun - from fatherhood and interracial dating, to Donald Trump and polyamory. What you can expect to hear in this episode: Derrick gets real about his early upbringing, entrepreneurship before fame, and the path to self-defense advocacy (8:00) Truth Time: Derrick’s thoughts on infidelity, being a father of 10, and infiltrating the white community by dating blondes (18:00) The ladies and Derrick discuss polyamory, raising eight daughters, how to properly search your Air BnB for spy cameras (25:00) Hot Take: Derrick talks legacy, thriving off adversity, and why he believes Donald Trump is the answer to America’s daddy issues )50:00) Trigger: Erica and Milah learn Derrick’s love language, thoughts on God, and why Scorpios are top tier (1:01:00) Watch This episode & more on YouTube! Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group! Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp Join us this summer in paradise at the Good Vibe Rest+Vibe Retreat in Costa Rica July 31 - August 5 August 8 - August 13 Got a lover? Join our Couples Retreat Code: Pleasure Official GMBC Music: So good feat Renee, Trip and http://www.anthemmusicenterprises.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Don't Judge Me
Happy Humpday, Tribe! Did you catch our YouTube Live while recording this episode? If not, don’t worry—we’re going live once a month (3rd week of every month) and we’ll send you a notification when we do, join our newsletter and subscribe to our YouTube for updates! This week, we’re back from our 14th retreat in Costa Rica and every time we return we’re reminded of how real magic is and the power of collective energy! In this episode we talk about reintegrating back to the states, the inevitable changes to your body and owning your goddess belly, and, of course, we share some bad choices of the week! Returning from the Jungle – Erica and Milah reflect on their Costa Rica retreat and the challenges of jumping back into motherhood and real life. (3:20) Living with your partner – Why Milah is reconsidering living with a partner. (12:45) Look, sometimes your body is going to jiggle – Erica shares her recent insecurities with her body and her journey towards embracing that belly fat aka her goddess belly. She also shares that , she might have to retire wearing the mumu at home and make a return to lounging in lingerie (21:10) Super Bowl in Costa Rica – How Kendrick Lamar activated their superpowers at a beachside dive bar (35:55) Bad Choice of the Week – A surprise "Diet-Lite orgy and why clear communication during any sexual experience is key, even if you have to take a meeting in the closet (50:22) Tribe Questions & Tarot Time – Answering your questions about breakups, spinning the block, and pulling the Judgment card for the collective (1:08:00) RETREAT GIVEAWAY We’re sending one lucky winner to our next Good Vibes Retreat—find out if it’s you and join our Patreon community exclusive updates! 1:22:10) ---------- Watch This episode & more on YouTube! Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group! Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp Join us this summer in paradise at the Couples Good Love Tantra Retreat June 14-19th and the Good Vibe Rest+Vibe Retreat July 31 + August 8th in Costa RicaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too!New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe!Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoicesWatch our episodes on YoutubeFor bonus content ---> www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices