Bonnerfide Conversations with Gerard Bonner

• 006:From Trauma to Triumph: Dr. Khaalida Forbes on Therapy, Faith, and the Power of Emotional Healing

  Can You Be Anti-Jesus While Trying to Be Like Him? Dr. Khaalida Forbes Unpacks the Truth What happens when faith, therapy, and emotional trauma collide? In this raw and unfiltered episode of Bonnerfide Conversations, Dr. Khaalida Forbes sits down with Gerard Bonner to unpack the complicated relationship between mental health, deliverance, and the church. 💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why emotional trauma is keeping believers spiritually stuck ✔️ How faith-based therapy breaks generational cycles of pain ✔️ The hard truth about religious guilt & mental health ✔️ "Crying is deliverance"—why your soul NEEDS to release pain ✔️ Why the church has failed in addressing real mental health struggles 🚨 "You run me away from the God I need while I’m trying to figure out His ways." – Dr. Khaalida Forbes 💡 This episode is for anyone who has ever felt torn between faith and mental health. 💬 Join the conversation: Use #BonnerfideConversations and tag us @bonnerfide and @drkhaalidaforbes on social media! 📌 A Member of the Bonnerfide Podcast Network 🌍 Visit: bonnerfidepodcastnetwork.com

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• 005: The Dangerous Power of Grit and Grace: How Dr. Khaalida Forbes Masters Both

  "Can a Black woman with a PhD be both feared and misunderstood? Dr. Khaalida Forbes opens up about the dangers of being ‘dangerously effective.’" In this thought-provoking episode of Bonnerfide Conversations, host Gerard Bonner sits down with Dr. Khaalida Forbes, a transformative leader who blends academic excellence, grit, and grace in ways that challenge the status quo. As a Black woman with a PhD, Dr. Forbes is both feared and misunderstood by many—and in this episode, she opens up about what it’s like to be “dangerously effective.” From her New York roots to navigating male-dominated spaces, Dr. Forbes shares how she’s learned to wield her power, her language, and her silence with precision. If you're a leader, entrepreneur, or creative looking to redefine what it means to be both strong and authentic, this episode will leave you inspired, challenged, and ready to take action. Show Notes: Grit and Grace: Dr. Khaalida Forbes dives into her personal philosophy on mastering both grit and grace. She shares how her upbringing in Brooklyn, New York, shaped her unshakable resilience and how she learned to navigate life with balance and strength. The Power of Language: Discover why Dr. Forbes believes that silence can be more powerful than words and how she carefully chooses when to speak. Her wisdom in balancing communication and silence is one of the key takeaways from this conversation. Breaking Barriers: As a Black woman with a PhD, Dr. Forbes discusses the challenges she’s faced in male-dominated spaces and how being “dangerously effective” often leads to being misunderstood. She shares valuable insights on how to maintain integrity and be unapologetically powerful in any environment. Wisdom Over Words: Dr. Forbes explains how wisdom has played a crucial role in her success. It’s not just about having the right words but knowing how to apply them. Listen as she reflects on the lessons she’s learned about being assertive and strategic in her leadership. Sexism and Race: One of the most powerful parts of this conversation is Dr. Forbes' candid reflection on the intersection of sexism and race. She discusses her experiences with both, shedding light on how these dynamics affect her career and leadership style. Chapters: [00:00] - Introduction: Host Gerard Bonner introduces Dr. Khaalida Forbes and sets the stage for a conversation about strength, resilience, and authenticity. [03:20] - The Grit and Grace of Dr. Khaalida Forbes: Dr. Forbes discusses how her upbringing in Brooklyn influenced her grit and approach to overcoming obstacles. [08:45] - The Power of Silence: Dr. Forbes explains why sometimes saying nothing is more impactful than speaking, and how she uses this strategy in her leadership style. [14:30] - Breaking Through Barriers: Dr. Forbes opens up about navigating male-dominated spaces and why being both feared and misunderstood comes with the territory. [20:15] - Wisdom and Leadership: The conversation shifts to the importance of wisdom in leadership. Dr. Forbes shares how wisdom helps her apply knowledge and make effective decisions. [25:40] - Navigating Sexism and Race: A candid discussion about the challenges Dr. Forbes has faced as a Black woman with a PhD in a world that often doesn’t know how to handle her power. [30:00] - Final Thoughts and Takeaways: Dr. Forbes shares final reflections on how to embrace your power, stay true to your authenticity, and lead with purpose and integrity. Dr. Khaalida Forbes' journey is a testament to the power of grit, grace, and wisdom in overcoming life's challenges. As a Black woman with a PhD, she has shattered barriers and navigated difficult spaces, becoming a "dangerously effective" leader in the process. In this conversation, she has given us a masterclass in being unapologetically powerful, wise, and authentic. For entrepreneurs, creatives, and leaders, this episode offers valuable insights into how to navigate a world that often doesn't know how to handle your strength. Dr. Forbes' words will leave you motivated to stand in your power, speak when necessary, and strategically choose when to remain silent. Join the conversation: Use #BonnerfideConversations and tag us @bonnerfide and @khaalidaforbes on social media! A Member of the Bonnerfide Podcast Network: bonnerfidepodcastnetwork.com

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• 004: The Wrestling Word: Pastor YPJ on Transparency, Faith & Hip-Hop

  This Episode is a Continuation of: 🎧 003: Until They Put the Toe Tag On – The Unstoppable Journey of Pastor YPJ 🎧 Episode Description: Faith and fame often seem like two different worlds, but Pastor YPJ proves otherwise. In this episode of BonnerFide Conversations, host Gerard Bonner sits down with Pastor YPJ to explore: ✅ Wrestling & Faith – How growing up as a wrestling fan shaped his resilience and ministry. ✅ The Music vs. Ministry Debate – Why he nearly quit music and why he now embraces both. ✅ Scandal-Free Leadership – His strategies for staying clear of controversy and maintaining integrity. ✅ Church & Relationships – The reality: The church doesn’t teach people how to have healthy relationships—it just tells them to stay in them. ✅ Privacy vs. Public Image – Why he chooses to keep parts of his life offline, and his thoughts on public figures sharing too much. 💬 Join the conversation: Use #BonnerfideConversations & tag @bonnerfide and @pastorypj on social media! 📌 A Member of the Bonnerfide Podcast Network — bonnerfidepodcastnetwork.com  

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• 003: Until They Put the Toe Tag On – The Unstoppable Journey of Pastor YPJ

  In this explosive episode of Bonnerfide Conversations, host Gerard Bonner sits down with Pastor YPJ—a dynamic voice in faith, music, and culture. From MySpace fame to leading a thriving ministry, Pastor YPJ shares his unorthodox rise in the digital era, how a viral song changed his trajectory, and his bold take on hip-hop, gospel, and breaking traditions. 🔹 How MySpace unexpectedly launched Pastor YPJ’s music career 🔹 The real reason Christian artists get boxed into one genre 🔹 Hip-hop, ministry, and the business of attention 🔹 Why creativity in faith spaces must evolve 🔹 The battle between Drake and Kendrick—who really won? 🔥 If you're an entrepreneur, artist, or faith leader navigating culture and influence, this episode is a must-listen! 💬 Join the conversation: Use #BonnerfideConversations and tag us @bonnerfide and @pastorypj on social media!  A Member of the Bonnerfide Podcast Network (bonnerfidepodcastnetwrok.com) 

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• 002: The Clack Attack, pt2: Love, Loss, and the Road to Redemption

  In this powerful episode of BonnerFide Conversations, host Gerard Bonner continues his deeply personal discussion with Brandon Clack, diving into the realities of marriage, family dynamics, and personal growth. Brandon opens up about the challenges of relocating, the complexities of church leadership, and the transformative lessons learned through grief and resilience. The conversation takes an emotional turn as he shares the heart-wrenching story of his daughter Zoe's birth, the unexpected trials that followed, and how he found hope after loss. With raw authenticity, he reflects on his faith journey, the role of community support, and the evolution of the Reformation Network. Through personal testimonies, this episode highlights the power of spiritual growth, emotional healing, and navigating change with grace. Don’t miss this compelling conversation on overcoming loss, faith, and the courage to keep moving forward. Listen now on BonnerFide Conversations! 🔗 #BonnerFideConversations #BrandonClack #FaithJourneys #HopeAfterLoss #PersonalGrowth #ReformationNetwork Episode Highlights: Marriage & Family – The joys and challenges of relationships Moving Cities – The impact of relocation on personal and spiritual life Overcoming Loss – Brandon’s journey through grief and healing Church Leadership – The evolving role of ministry and community building Authenticity in Storytelling – Sharing raw, unfiltered experiences Faith & Spiritual Growth – Trusting God through life’s hardest seasons Creative Culture – How Reformation is shaping a new wave of faith-based conversations Timestamps: 00:00 – BonnerFide Conversations welcomes Brandon Clack 02:18 – Episode sponsor: Kollective 09:12 – Moving from San Antonio to Memphis 16:00 – The emotional journey of Zoe’s birth 31:21 – Writing Hope After Loss with Christabel Clack 43:15 – The growth of Reformation and what’s next A Member of the Bonnerfide Podcast Network

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